First and foremost, on this blog, exhaust means asshole. I don't know where I got it from but it's now part of this blog's lingo.
Now that we got that out of the way, let's get down to some serious business. So, do women in real life really enjoy a finger or two up their exhaust during intercourse?
I think the answer really depends from woman to woman but some do, most don't and a lot hate it.
Unlike men, women don’t have have a prostate gland up in their exhaust. The most sensitive part of a woman’s asshole is near the entry point and not down the asshole which means you don’t have to insert your finger all the way in. Just the tip lol.
If you're going to stick a finger in her asshole, the main thing is to make sure that your woman is comfortable with this sort of thing.
• Make sure you only insert just one finger and you need to be very gentle and it should be done gradually. Why? Because the asshole is a very sensitive area and the skin can be easily torn.
• Make sure she is horny enough and wet before you go anywhere near any of her holes.
• The most important thing is to make sure that your own finger is well lubricated (and that the nails are very short). If you haven't got any lubricants, you will have to use some good ol' saliva because the exhausts are naturally dry. Dry penetration will certainly hurt her.
• Do not thrust your finger in and out like you do when fingering her pussy. You will hurt her. Just gently slide in the tip of your finger (do not do it aggressively but not too slowly either). From here, your woman will tell you how she wants it. I can't really give any tips because, when it comes to exhausts, women react differently. If she likes to have her asshole played around with, she will have one heck of an orgasm if you get it right.
• Never use the same finger for anal and vaginal penetration.
• Be warned that shit stays in the exhaust so expect some shit on your finger.
If you do not like the idea of sticking your finger in her asshole, just do what I do. I tend to play around with the exhaust or press it with my thumb particularly during doggystyle. I do it because I just want her to feel my thumb or finger on her ass. have I slid my finger in the exhaust before? Well, that's another stororo for another day.
If she’s not into that kind of stuff, don’t force things. Just accept her decisions.