Oral sex topic again. I asked this question in a group I run on Facebook. The question was, "ladies, what’s one thing you wish a guy did whilst he was going down on you"? Here's what the women said.

• Suck on the clitoris instead of flicking it with his tongue like how a cat drinks water.

• Go slow. Not everything has to be fast paced and crazy all the time

• Hold my thighs. Like grip them, just firm enough…

• Fingering at the same time is always nice, but not in and out, find that g-spot and massage it why you lick and suck the clit.

• Touch/grab my thighs, my ass, slowly touch down my spine, everywhere, somewhere. Tease me good before you go down and while you’re down there.

• Don’t be to shy to open it up and really get the clit. Like if dudes really spread the lips and focused on the clit I would lose my mind.

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• Actually suck on the clitoris instead of flicking it with his tongue like how a cat drinks water.

• Go slow. Not everything has to be fast paced and crazy all the time

• Hold my thighs. Like grip them, just firm enough…

• Yasss that clit flicking shit is not the wave.

• Fingering at the same time is always nice, but not in and out, find that g-spot and massage it why you lick and suck the clit. I will die.

• Touch/grab my thighs, my ass, slowly touch down my spine, everywhere, somewhere. Tease me good before you go down & while you’re down there.

• Deadass with the thigh thing
- Kiss those inner thighs too
- Pretend you’re passionately kissing the kitty
- Not a cat drinking water
- Also don’t even do it if you
 a) don’t like doing it
 b) you’re going to do it for 2 seconds

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• Don’t be to shy to open it up and really get the clit. Like if dudes really spread the lips and focused on the clit I would lose my mind

• Slow down on the flickering thing, that rapid shit isn't pleasurable, slowly running your tongue back n forth tho? Yes!

• Thigh kissing is nice, ass grabbing, boob squeezing, thigh gripping, a little passionate teasing takes you far and honestly gets her wetter by the minute.

 

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• Slow down, take your time at first, dont just dive in, enjoy your meal.

• That rapid flicking thing doesnt do much for me (i cant speak for every girl) but slow runs across the clit are lovely, just focus on the clit, let your fingers do some work if you get tired or something.

• I don't know about every girl but that mimic-my-dick-with-my-tongue technique doesn't do shit.

• Don’t be rubbin' on the clit like you trying to shine a shoe, it’s very sensitive. To that end, no dry cat-tounges. Slob it down please.

• If you think blowing on it or in it or anywhere near the pussy does anything for anyone, punch yourself in the face right now.

• Definitely suck on my clit. And start gently, you are neither a cat to flip it nor are you in a rush to catch the bus. And once you find out what I like, stop fucking changing the technique!!! Stick to the one that works, we can experiment some other time!

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• Tell me about this post. My husband always does the little suck clit and nibble. I just taught him how to rub the clit. He was awful before. He would just flick and rub the outer lips so fast it would feel like it would burn. Now he knows what I like. And guys, please moan or say something good while you're doing it! I wanna know that you want the pussy and you want it good.

• Take it slow, don't rush or try too hard. All good things come in good time. Also while you're down there with your face, your hands should be on my tits rubbing and pinching my nipples.

• While you are doing all of the above, play with a nipple or two. Gently pull and tug, rolling them between your fingers.

• The slow sucking, gentle flicking slowly and loving on the clit is insanely amazing.. spending time to make me cum.. the way you look at me and growl cos you love it. I love that you treat it like it’s the best pussy you’ve ever had. A clean shaven face.... nothing better than having your smooth face between my legs.

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• I also like having my anus fingered. Slide just the tip of your finger in, palm up and tug towards you on the muscle wall. Not hard, but gently. I have had so many anal centered orgasms when my husband does this. It has even made me squirt once or twice.

• Gently kiss and lick the inside of my thighs, work your way up to my pussy, kiss my lips, gently suck them into your mouth, move up to my clit, kiss it, lick it a little but definitely suck it gently. Grab my tits and gently pinch my nipples, put a finger in me but only a little ways, try to find my g-spot. You'll get my honey but be patient if you want the good stuff.

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• All of us are different and like different things, don’t be a hero and think u already know, most of you don’t know what you are doing, so ask us, ‘Tell me how to make your legs shake’ if you ask I’ll tell you what’s up, but yea suck on that clit and don’t let go!!! Like a vacuum...

• And lick my ass and everything else previously said above. But Is Rimming Safe?

• Guys, notice how we've all basically said the same thing? I hope you men pay attention to this shit. Every woman is different but here are the basics to pleasing us.

1. Stop the fucking flicking shit.

2. Focus on the CLIT. Suck it, circle it. Engulf it. If she moans, keep doing that.

3. But please, do visit thigh-land. Inner thigh licking and kissing will set us on fire.

4. What is this fingering shit? Massage the g-spot or get out. We feel nothing with that little stabbing motion. Also, stop sticking your 2 inches of tongue in there. Come back up to the clit.

5. LONG strokes with the tongue.

6. Stop humming. Most of us use vibrators so that little humming trick you learned from watching porn isn't as good as you think.

7. Speaking of vibes, the reason you’re in our bed is because you can do one thing our sex toys can’t do. And that’s grab us. Grab us, squeeze us, we want to feel your hands on our body.

8. If you can reach, please grab a titty.

9. Some women are self conscious about how they look/taste/smell down there. Or worry about taking too long to orgasm, so let her know you’re enjoying it. Moan, groan, sound like you’re eating a plate of ribs

10. Do it til we cum or get the fuck outta here!

That's all for today. I will post part 2 later because the post had about 500 comments.

Icho!

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