Have you ever wondered why you love having your hair pulled during sex, particularly during doggystyle?? Here's an explanation and I'll use myself as an example.
· I love being dominated. For me, I need to feel helpless, vulnerable and taken advantage of during doggystyle so hair pulling is a must. It makes things even more interesting. t's something I enjoy especially when he's got all my hair grabbed in a bunch. Then he spanks my ass. Eish!
· Loss of control. Like I said, that helplessness makes everything feel totally different. I feel like he's in total control of everything and all I can do is wait to be fucked. It makes me feel like I'm at his mercy.
· I like to feel like a sex object. I want to feel 'used'. It makes me feel like I'm his to do as he wishes.
· Strangely, hair when pulled is does make the scalp sensitive. I think it explains why scalp massages feel good. The moment my hair is pulled, my eyes just roll back lol.
I think this is all I can come up with. If you do not like having your hair pulled, just let your man know. As for you men, when you pull, just gently but firmly tug it. Don't be too hard and definitely do not be too soft.